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I always told my boyfriend he was free to do whatever he wanted sexually.. so like open relationship.. but my friend thinks i'm crazy for it. what do you think? is it a bad idea?
I’m probably not the right person to answer this because I have very biased views on fidelity. But in short, no I don’t think so. If he’s doing it because you see each other once a year or less and you know you won’t be jealous then I don’t see it as a problem. As long as the reason isn’t that something is emotionally lacking in the relationship and you know in the long term you won’t react to this badly then don’t mind what she thinks :) |
love > 3294 miles
Fighting the distance one post at a time.
May this blog bring you hope. x
lovers here
since 6/11/11
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Did you ever really figure out what was going on with him? Or is it still a big mystery?
Yes I did, and everything has become much much better |
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Hi :) okay so i need some advice.. my boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. He lives in Arizona and I live in Oregon. And we actually get to see eachother about once a month and he's going to school here next year so we can be together. But, my mom is being a selfish bitch and told me I can't see him anymore because he's 3 years older and I lied to her about it at first. What should I do? He makes me so happy but she doesn't care.
Stop lying to her about what’s going on. As long as you’re being honest hopefully she’ll see that he isn’t going to harm you just because of the age difference. Once he moves introduce them and mention him in conversations (stuff like “oh name likes that too!”) so she understands that you’re serious about the relationship. She was a teenager once too, maybe doing this will help remind her of it :) Obviously she just has your best interest at heart but she shouldn’t need to dictate your actions because of it. Ask her to explain her reasoning and then work from there. |
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Hello i have been in a long distance relationship on and off with my boyfriend for about 2-3 years.. we fight alot and break up but we always come back to eachother and we are completely inlove and cannot leave eachother. im 15 and he is 19. do you think this is bad? the age difference? we havent discussed it before and he insists he doesnt care that he loves me so much it doesnt matter. but we only talk through instant messages no calls texts webcam or anything.
If you guys aren’t doing anything to get him into legal trouble I don’t see why it should be a problem. Past break ups might have simply been because of the different maturity levels seeing as how you were so young. Although just to be safe, if I were you I would ask to skype at least once. Even if you’ve talked to him for that long, it’s better to be sure of what’s going on. :) |
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i only just found this blog tonight and i love it! i live in perth (AUS) and my boyfriend lives on the other side of the country...we've known each other for 6 years and have always had feelings for each other, in jan 2011 he drove all the way acoss the country to finally meet me and it was amazing. we've been together over a year now and hopefully i will get to move to be with him by the end of the year. long distance is definitely worth it if you truly care about someone
ahhhh that’s so sweet rooting for you |
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My boyfriend who lives 800 miles away just left after spending the most amazing 4 and a half days of my life with me. I just want to thank you so much for your blog, and for all of the inspiration that you provide to everyone. Distance is daring, but I know that it is more than worth it. Love will always overcome the miles, and no matter how hard it gets, I know that I will never give up. Thank you for you blog. It is getting me through tonight.
You’re very welcome, I hope time flies for the two of you |
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My boyfriend & I have been in a long distance relationship for six months. In 10 days he'll be moving to were I live, so we'll be able to see each other everyday. This is what most ldr couples dream about. But I'm so nervous. I feel like if he moves here, we'll fall apart or my parents won't like him, since my mom didn't approve of this from the start. Is there anything I should or shouldn't do since this is the first time we've met each other in person?
Just be yourself, it’s the best thing you can do. And don’t jump into anything (like moving in) without thinking it through! I’m sure your mom will come around once she sees how strong your connection is, give her some time. Wishing you the best of luck |
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Hey :) Actually this is not a question... I just wanted to share this with you and with ppl who check ur blog daily like me ^^ Ur blog REALLY bring me hope :) I've been into a long distance relationship for some months... I live in Brazil and he lives in France, I'm 20 and he is 25, and u know, I just trust him so much and I'm sure that our relation going to get stronger day by day. Ppl say that I'm crazy and yes maybe I am, but what matter is that I'm happy and I know he is the man of my life!
So happy for you! People are too quick to judge sometimes |
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You guys haven't talked in so long! Do you think it's gonna work out?
I really have no idea. Just doing what I can for now. |
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how long has it been since he's called you?
a month and a half and going. with maybe one or two message conversations since. lol. |
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he obviously doesn't like you, get the fuck over yourself
I’m amused that you stalk me enough to know every detail of my relationship. Thanks, you’re awesome. |
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how come you don't hate him after all thats happened?
How could I hate my best friend? Even after what happened a few days ago he still puts a smile on my face and knows me better than anyone. We’re just at separate places in our lives right now. |
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i like to think that distance makes a couple stronger. it makes you appreciate what you have and the little amount of time you get to see each other and hold each other. Some days it's harder than others to remember these things, but knowing all you guys out there are going through the same things makes it easier. we're all in the same boat, but we'll get through it! thank you for this!! :) xx
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Hey can you promote my ldr blog? it's icanwaitforever-distance
sure, follow her people! |
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Where can I get a password protected tumblr? I was looking for one, thank u.
make a second blog off of your main, then go to blog settings and add a password (you can’t put a password on your main blog) |
