love > 3294 miles

Just to make this clear:

If you don’t agree with my opinions and don’t like the advice that I give, don’t ask me for it. I’m no professional, I never claimed to be but sending me a flood of messages saying that my ideas are stupid is just a waste of your time. I’m not someone that is hurt easily by words so if that was your aim, think again. I don’t mind it when someone takes their anger out on me but honestly this is becoming excessive. I don’t know if you’re the same anon repetitively or if it’s a group of people but if someone comes to me I’ll answer their questions. I have no intention of stopping because you don’t agree with me. You’re welcome to find other LDR blogs to follow instead, there are a lot of lovely ones out there.

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are you secretly gay or something? why the fuck do you blog things about girls or that say her or like portia talking about ellen??

Anonymous

you realize this is 2012 and we believe in equality now right

no is your answer. i aim to reach out to all of my followers and post things different people can relate to.

13 notes // 6 months ago

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something just feels off and different. i dont know what to do. i dont know what to feel. i dont know if i love her anymore. im so confused about e v e r y t h i n g

Anonymous

I wish I could tell you how you’re feeling but that’s not really in my power. I’ve always found that my confusion is solved with time. Hang in there, you’ll get your answers.

0 notes // 6 months ago

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hey could you help me get some donations to see my girlfriend?

Anonymous

Unfortunately that’s not something I can do. It wouldn’t be fair to the thousands of other couples facing financial struggles. Good luck!

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I totally get how you feel because of what you're going through. I used to feel so stupid after texting him, because 75% of the time he would either ignore it or just be too busy to answer. But try to be patient, or you'll end up like me, bipolar and desperate for his attention and will only get him tired and overwhelmed. Now I have to spend a whole month without knowing if he'll break up with me or not. Don't make the same mistakes I did. Stay strong. ♥

Anonymous

i really appreciate it

hope everything works out for you xx

0 notes // 7 months ago

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Do you have any advice on cheating in LDRs

Anonymous

Yaaaaay rant time

I think cheating in general is all about the loss of trust, not the physical/sexual/whatever act. Losing trust completely sways the dynamic of the relationship and in any situation it’s next to impossible to fully recover from. Honestly, if someone is happy and if they see you in their future they should not feel compelled to deceive you. They do it, their mistake. If you’re just dating/engaged/newly married I would pretty much say get the heck out of there. The only time when I think you really need to sit down and evaluate the situation is if a family is involved (or some other large picture). Since ldrs are so heavily dependant on trust and communication cheating is THE BIGGEST RED FLAG EVER. I hope that helps you out a bit, I could probably help you more if you tell me whats going on.

Also side note I think breaking up for one or two days, messing with someone else, and getting back together after is bullshit too.

5 notes // 7 months ago

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Kinda weird question but I met a guy online few months ago... Really like him... But how do I know that he's not a... Creep?

Anonymous

Do your research.
I know some people say that if you know someone well you wouldn’t worry, but I’ve heard some crazy stories about online relationships. They may the 0.01% but better safe than sorry.
This is an unpopular opinion but… Google. Facebook. Other social networks. Make sure you webcam. Etc

0 notes // 7 months ago

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Wait is it possible to not deal with being ignored because I wasn't aware and I've been doing this for a while ok

sadegrass

anon who r u plz come out and clarify you have us all mind fucked

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So this ignoring thing is normal? Well thats unfortunate :|

Anonymous

Are you telling me you’ve never dealt with it before? WHO ARE YOU, COME FORTH :|

Yeah I would say it’s pretty normal. You aren’t always in the circumstance when you can text back right away. It’s not intentional but sometimes it just happens. Usually goes both ways.

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can you post the photo again? i missed it x(

Anonymous

lol it was just a weird photo of me with his hair covering half my face! you didn’t miss much

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you can answer privately but I thought I'd tell you I totally know how the whole getting-ignored thing goes. the anon is dumb for thinking he's doing it intentionally x) if you've never been ignored for the priorities of 'real life' you're not in a ldr, at least not a long term one, haha. my boyfriend has three jobs plus school and I have college + work as well, so i totally get it. you're not alone :)

Anonymous

you’re on anon aha i can’t answer privately!

but yep, pretty much the same situation. it sucks but i guess sometimes it’s the way it’s gotta be :)

0 notes // 7 months ago

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YOURE GORGGGGGGG

Anonymous

lol you can’t even tell what i look like!

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can you post a picture of you two, together? pls pls pls :3

Anonymous

edit: k bai photo

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he shouldnt be ignoring you? you are his gf

Anonymous

not on purpose, he’s just stormed with things to do

and our schedules are such a way that when i get out of class he’s about to sleep

0 notes // 7 months ago

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I love your text posts. They remind me I'm not alone. I love that other people are hurting too (I SWEAR I DON'T MEAN THAT THE WAY IT SOUNDS!) I'm not enjoying your pain or anything, it's just nice to know I'm not crazy for being sad and missing my love, or for being gushy sometimes too. <3

sadegrass

Ah thank you! I really hope more people feel like this. :)

0 notes // 7 months ago